6 reasons why you should thank her/him for leaving you

Why you should say thanks to your ex:

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A broken heart hurts for long. And everyone who has ever been in that state knows it.
The process of breaking up is a hard part of our life, it sucks our energy and positivity out of our life.

Thinking about the past can induce the bad thoughts & cause the depression, heart break, but you have to thank your ex because we can't change the past, its over, so let it go.


Never let your self be saddened by separation
it sucks to separate from someone who you want to be with, but getting sad over it won't help you.
sometimes we just need to toughen up and appreciate what we have, not what we lose.

Here the 6 reasons why you should thank your ex for leaving you:


1 ) complete freedom, you are free bird now:

you are busy in the relationship that you are forget to care about your freedom and desires, but you have complete freedom do whatever you want and don't worry about approval of others.


2) Focus on your future and goals:
"Whatever doesn't kill you, it simply makes you stronger"
you became a better version of yourself and you have more time to focus on your goals.
we grow and we learn but not miss those lessons along the way.


3) More time for family and friends: 

some unshakable relationships of our lives get sidelined because of relationship.
Family and friends who have always been with you through out the life in our ups and downs, they deserve our love and attention
and appreciation for their support.



4) you are completely strong now:
For putting you through the worst, so you know what you have the capacity to handle. So for the rest of your life, you can look back and say: “I never thought I would get through that and I did, I can get through this, too.



5) you are realize that you are not wasting the time with wrong person:
If it was mean to be, then you both would have made it work. If she dumped you at least you know you are not wasting some of the best years of your life with wrong person.


6)For the discomfort, and all the ways it made you move and change and grow and step into the life you have now. 
All the ways you could no longer be who you were, and think the way you thought, and behave the way you instinctively did, those were the genesis stories of who you became. The things you left and the places you went and the shoulders you leaned on became the pieces of the life you were always meant to find.


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156 comments:

  1. This article is just want I needed at this time in my life- thanks so much!

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  2. This is I should say is different. There's alot I want to say. This article says a thousand words. Well, there are good things that should end and sometimes LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH

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  3. Never expected this kind of detailed info in a blog. This must have taken you long to write this blog. Thanks.

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  4. I admit that so far in my life it has not been a problem that I found myself facing, but I like how you did it.

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  5. These are some good points, but I think being sad is part of the process. If we didn't enjoy being with the person in the first place, we would't be sad, but for some people break ups hurt. Other than that, I agree that we now have time to move on and find the right person that is for us.

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  6. Moving on is a fact of life. And that's the best thing you can do when something is not working out. As they say: no point in flogging a dead horse. This is a very positive post.

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  7. These are all good points. Oddly my divorce was probably my healthiest breakup ever, I was already over it long before it happened and my ex was a total jerk. Made it a tad bit easier.

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  8. i suggested to a friend whos is going through a hard time. she love it,thank you :)

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  9. Number 5 is the best. Sometimes, people who stay with you just waste your time and keep you from finding the right one. Sure, it stinks to be dumped, but it is worse to spend your life with the wrong person. Fantastic way to look at a breakup.

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  10. Oh HEY! All I can think about is Thank u, NEXXXXXT. Interesting topic and interesting post!

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  11. Great tips on how to get over a breakup. So true that it will make you stronger and not kill you.

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  12. This is a great way to look at things. It's never a good idea to wallow for ages over a break up.

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  13. I do thank them for making me stronger and I guess I wouldn't be me without them behind me. However it can be hard and this definitely a good way to look at things.

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  14. Breakups can be so hard in the moment... But looking back we realize that they were the best for us and meant to be. I know I have been there and the heartbreak was awful but it helped shape me and then I met my now husband who is amazing.

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  15. Yes, it is true, a break up or many other events in life does take time to heal or overcome. It is important to remember that we cannot change the pass. However, quickly learning from our mistakes and being intentional about our future really helps.

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  16. OMG....so enjoyed the reasons shared here. An interesting sharing, thanks! cheers, siennylovesdrawing

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  17. You nailed it! Responses I have told my oldest daughters when they have experienced heartbreak. Thanks for sharing!

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  18. So true, all of it! With each love and loss you learn a bit more about yourself, too. And learn more about what you want in life, and what type of person will compliment you and make your life better as a team. It's not easy, finding that, for sure!!

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  19. These points are so important! Thank you for the amazing reminder!

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  20. I was the one who left and thank goodness I did! It hurt because I loved the guy but I knew that the relationship was toxic for me so I moved on!

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  21. This is a nice way to turn a negative experience into a positive one. It’s a much healthier way to live too.

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  22. So true, breakups do make people stronger and give them time to get to know themselves even better and learn that they deserve more.

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  23. I love this perspective and I am sure it helps so many girls who are dealing with break ups right now to GET OVER IT! You can thank those who have come and gone for sure, because they have helped BUILD your character that much more!

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  24. Everything happens for a good reason. I very much agree with your points. We should know something better is awaiting for us.

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  25. I accomplished so much after my exes left! I finished my B.A., got a much better job and bought a condo.

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  26. This seems like such a grown up and positive way to deal with a break up, a real way to find something good from something ending.

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  27. It is so hard to see the benefits when you are living in the moment. However, hindsight is 20/20 and I am so happy my ex and I are not together any more.

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  28. I have definitely have some ex's I would like to thank for not being in my life and some I wish would have never entered in the first place.

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  29. Break ups are such an emotional ride for anyone. Especially when the two of you were close.

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  30. Couldn't agree more. Number 2 is soo true! Every experience makes us stronger. A friend of mine got divorced recently and I bet that this would be really helpful. I'm going to sharing it.

    Candace Hampton
    http://www.thebeautybeau.com

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  31. every "practice" relationship only better prepares us for when the real thing comes about.

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  32. In my last failed relationship, both of us agreed to leave. I must say and agree that it was all good that we never wasted our time together.

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  33. These are all good points. I have only gone through it once in my life and looking back it was best that it actually did happen.

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  34. That's very helpful to think of a break up in terms of what you got out of it that was good. It's hard to get over being sad but it's worth the effort.

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  35. I thank my x for leaving me as I have met my beautiful wife after. :)

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  36. I want to thanks Ariana Grande for the thank you next song. So relatable and it makes moving on so much more simpler when you thank them.

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  37. Break ups are tough. It's hard to just let it go especially if you loved the other person or kids are involved. I think we grow from life and your advice is true but you need to grieve a little first to move past it.

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  38. I think the only thing I could thank for would be not wasting my time for a wrong person. I'm a single now and I miss being in a relationship a lot! :)

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  39. Wonderful tips. wish I read this a year ago lol!

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  40. You've made and proven so many valid points that many people can relate. Past can be good or bad actually. It's a chapter of our lives to know whether we earn something or learn.

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  41. I let my ex-boyfriend go 10 years ago for the same reason above. My future was brighter without him and I could be more free. I don't think I would be stronger or free-er if I continued to be with him.

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  42. These are such good reasons why you should say thank you to your ex. My daughter is going thru a breakup and she has only bad things to say about him. I think she could benefit from your post.

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  43. Very inspirational post. It's better to be alone than in the wrong relationship.

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  44. I've always tried to learn lessons from every relationship I've been in so that I don't repeat the same mistakes. One thing I have learned is I don't miss anyone that I call an ex.

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  45. These are great points! Most of us who have gone through a breakup know how painful it is. But time is a great healer and before long you realize that you have emerged stronger on the other side, as you very well pointed out in your article. The important thing is to know that no matter how difficult it is you will be fine.

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  46. Interesting topic to talk about here. Yay for all the EX's I have been with before. It has been a learning experience and I'm glad they're all cut off from my life :) Thanks with a big celebration HAHA

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  47. Everyone has some kind of a breakup in life. These are great points on how to deal with it and make what feels sooooo negative a positive!

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  48. It's been a very long time since I've had a relationship end. It hurt at the time when it did, but if it didn't , I may not have met my husband when I did and without him, I wouldn't have my three wonderful kids. There's much to be grateful for, now.

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  49. I've been flying solo for 3 years and I feel in peace, complete and happy. It took me a while to get when I am now, but it feels so good! Great post!

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  50. Lovely this! Don't hold any grudges to your exes but instead you need to be thankful because they make you feel inspired during the good old days however you need to help yourself to start a new day in your life without them it's hard but you need to keep moving forward and also acceptance is important for the new beginning.

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  51. I love your post! And yes absolutely, sometimes breaking up with your partner is the best thing for you. Great post.

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  52. AMEN!!! Sometimes you don't think it's the best thing when it happens but when it hits you and the sun shines again it's important to be thankful of it but move on!

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  53. Such an interesting take on things and I have to say I agree completely! Breakups aren't fun, but when they do happen, I think it's awful how rude people can be to their ex. Just by being kind to them, and remembering the good times you had together, you will be a much happier person.

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  54. Very interesting perspective. Very positive way to deal with a negative situation.

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  55. I agree. But a break up is like a loss, you need to process it and grieve it. I think sadness is normal and acceptable and getting it out of your system helps you move on. Lynda Hogan

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  56. They way you pin-point all the positive benefits of such a sad moment is amazing. This is how we need to face every moment in our life, always focusing on the bright side. Thank you!

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  57. Such a positive thought! Will share it on social media. I am sure it will help lot of people

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  58. Wise words. Im going to share it with a friend.

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  59. Great positive spin on a terrible time. Thanks!

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  60. If someone leaves they weren't meant to be there. Plain and simple. Sure, the actual situations are a lot more complicated, but in the end it's always better to cut your losses as early as possible so you can both have the chance to be your best selves.

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  61. Ah yes, I totally agree with this! Spinning this into a positive is smart.

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  62. Thank you for the interesting article

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  63. Yes, it definitely makes us stronger. Only if we utilize the lessons from the relationship in the first place. If we let the emotion of it carry us away, we won't grow at all.

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  64. No matter what happens, you are shaped by your experiences, and its rare to be worse off after any experience (though of course there are obvious exceptions). Never regret anything you did, especially your past relationships. They will make you know what you are looking for, because some people don't know until they get the experience.
    Thanks for sharing!

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  65. I'm thanking all my former girlfriends. If not for them I won't be as happy as I am now.

    Suckers. Hahaha

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  66. Ha ha thanks for the motivation. Currently in that phase where I was blaming myself for our relationship going kaput but now after reading this! I am gonna thank him!

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  67. What a great way to turn a negative into a positive!

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  68. Great break up tips. I believe that moving on from a relationship is one of the best learning experiences you can have.

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  69. Everything is for the better thanks to my ex's because then I wouldn't be where or with who I am with now.

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  70. Some great points there! And of course, I can relate to most of it!

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  71. I truly needed it today.. Thanks!

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  72. Some really good advice here. I don't feel sad when I leave, and currently happier than I have ever been by not setteling

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  73. Honestly, my ex and I splitting up was one of the best things that ever happened. I learned so much about myself from that relationship and has made me so much more grateful for my current relationship

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  74. Yes I agree with all of this and if it's not the right person, even when it hurts, you will be stronger afterwards and know what you really want

    Laura x

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  75. This is a good way to promote being single doesn't it? These are all facts that many people can relate. Freedom and good future lies ahead.

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  76. Really interesting post. Thanks for sharing!

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  77. Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves that we don't need someone to complete us. We are already whole ;)

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  78. This is a really well written post. Everyone needs to focus on themselves first.

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  79. Best part is realizing you arent wasting your time and life with the wrong person. It might seem like your ex was the one but they wasnt, the one would want you and do right by you.

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